mijobooks Chapter 3307 It is better to control your own heart than to control other people's heart
Chapter 3307 It is better to control your own heart than to control other people's heart
"Zhan Yao, in this world, the magnetic field of people and things is changing every minute and every second.
At this moment, you think you can control the people and things.
In the next second, it will change due to various reasons.
Become an existence that you cannot control.
When you choose Doudou now, you are choosing a partner who seems obedient and able to cooperate with you.
You look at her from the perspective of a superior.
You know what she desires, and you think you can keep her firmly in your hands.
But as a person whose intentions were not right to begin with, she just didn't find a better stepping stone.
What you covet at this moment may give you more in the next moment.
The most difficult thing to control is the human heart.
It’s better to control yourself and feel at ease.”
Zhan Yao was not above listening to the old man's earnest words.
But he didn't want to take any more detours and just wanted to keep going this way.
“Grandpa, do you think I will regret it in the future?”
Zhan Yao's voice was very soft.
The old man sighed and said,
“No one can predict what will happen in the future.
If you choose this now, and regret it one day in the future, you will regret it.
But if you choose the other, there is also the possibility of regret.
Because the magnetic field of the entire environment will change.
So I won’t arbitrarily tell you that you will regret it just because I don’t want you to choose Doudou.
I just hope that you can face your marriage squarely and give your future and your future children a fair and warm space.
It is more meaningful to control yourself than to control others. "
After the old man finished speaking, he raised his hand and patted Zhan Yao on the shoulder.
He knew Zhan Yao's temper. In the beginning, he was even more stubborn than Xiao Yan.
Xiaoyan's stubbornness comes from his seriousness and persistence, while Zhan Yao's is a pessimistic escape.
"Grandpa, I have seen through the world.
So, it doesn’t matter who you choose or not.
If I choose Doudou, when I have children in the future, my parents will be able to pay less attention to me by taking care of their grandchildren.
Because I have let them down, but the arrival of a new baby will allow them to see a new beginning in this child."
Zhan Yao's ideas are very realistic in some aspects.
If you have let your parents down, you hope that your next generation can make it up to you.
Obviously, this is also an evasive and irresponsible diversion.
"how about you?
Shouldn't you be with them?"
The old man frowned. How long will this grandson continue to escape?
“I’ll get married and have kids, and after I finish my mission, I want to live somewhere deserted for a few years.
If you adapt, you won't want to come back.
if……"
"How can you say you've seen through the world? You still have someone in your heart! Are you marrying Doudou out of guilt? Or something else?"
The old man interrupted Zhan Yao coldly.
As expected of an old hand, with his sharp eyes, he could quickly see what Zhan Yao was thinking.
Zhan Yao had a sense of oppression that he had no way of hiding from the old man.
"Grandpa, stop talking.
I'm going back.
Have a good rest."
Zhan Yao was afraid that if he stayed any longer, all his secrets would be lost.
He ran away as if escaping.
The old man shouted several times, and the faster he shouted, the faster he ran.
The old man knew that it would be impossible to convince him in one go, and he still needed the right opportunity to talk a few more times to find the key breakthrough.
As soon as Zhan Yao left the old man's side, he was stopped by a nurse.
Zhan Yao recognized the other person as the nurse in Zhan Jing's ward.
“Mr. Zhan, Zhan Jing wants to see you.
You are the only one here. "
The nurse conveyed Zhan Jing's words.
Zhan Yao was a little surprised to hear this.
Didn’t he just meet Zhan Jing?
She didn't say a word to me.
What's going on now?