mijobooks Chapter 373 The Psychiatrist
Chapter 373 The Psychiatrist
Chen Yunian continued to run around in bars and schools.Winter is here again, and Christmas is another year.Various receptions and activities among students began to be held in the school.
The decoration of the school also began to match the style of Christmas. There were bright and beautiful men and women everywhere, and most of the students in the grade basically had a partner.
After all, in the open Europe, many people started falling in love in middle school, which was simply impossible for Chen Yunian.When I was in China, I used to go to school and read books, and occasionally going to play with a few boys was considered an extra pastime.
Chen Yunian's family is a very traditional family. They have very high expectations for their son, so they also have high requirements for him. When he entered puberty, the family held a coming-of-age ceremony, although he was only 12 years old at that time , but his father also told him very carefully, as a man in charge.You must not start a relationship when you are not yet mature.
Maybe this is the habit of the previous generation, or maybe it was because of the lack of material and spirit in their time, it seems that life is only left with continuous hard work and living.
"Yu Nian, from now on you are a man of our Chen family. Although your classmates are playing carefree, but I need you to know that our family is a scholarly family, and we have been out of school since ancient times. No. [-] scholar, of course, it’s a new century now, don’t talk about those things.”
Chen Yunian's father is also a doctor. He is rigorous and a bit rigid. He has great confidence in his son. After all, this son has shown extraordinary intelligence and excellence since he was a child.What he hadn't realized in him, he hoped could be realized in his son.
"You are a gifted child, so we will have higher requirements for you. This is also for your own good. We don't care about your brother anymore. After he goes to college, we will stop his living expenses and tuition fees. He earns it by himself. You are different, we will pay for you to finish college, even a master's degree is no problem."
Dr. Chen has a completely different attitude towards his two sons. The eldest son, Chen Yuli, is a devil in the world. He has caused many disasters since he was a child. All of them are cleaned up by his family members. I don’t know if God is fair. As well-behaved as Chen Yunian was, his older brother Chen Yuli was just as naughty.
Those who are familiar with their family know that Chen Yuli's nickname is Dali. In fact, Chen Yuli looks sunny and handsome, but he is a troublemaker everywhere.Fighting has never been without him. He has been obsessed with fitness since he was young, and he has grown tall and muscular since high school.
The only advantage is that he is very obedient to his family and dotes on his younger brother Chen Yunian, but Chen Yunian rarely has the time or opportunity to accept his elder brother's love.
Most of the time, what my brother does is also something that makes him dumbfounded.For example, take him to watch those romantic action movies, or teach him some skills of picking up girls.
The Chen family was desperate for Chen Yuli, but after all, he was still his own son, so he had to take care of him if he couldn't, so the requirement they set for the eldest son was that he must be admitted to an undergraduate university, and he could do anything else.At that time, all his sources of income will be cut off after he goes to college.
In fact, it's not a lack of money, but they want to force the eldest son to let him know that the adult society is cruel, and if he continues to do so, his basic life will be hopeless in the future.
"Father, in fact, I don't need you to support me for so many years. When I get to college, I can also make money by myself. When my brother can do it, I can do it too."
"My silly son, you are different from my brother. We are not reluctant to part with the money. We have been doctors for half our lives. Although we don't earn as much as those who do business and become officials, we still have a lot of savings. .Perfectly enough for the two of you to go to college."
Chen Yunian's mother thought that Chen Yunian took his brother as an example.
"Your brother is actually very smart, but he just doesn't follow the right path. He doesn't pay attention to anything. He only goes out to play all day long, or when he does something unimportant. We didn't pay your brother on purpose, and it was also to scare him. If it is time to go to school, the living expenses will still be paid. As for the tuition fee, we will give him a student loan and let him pay it back slowly in the future."
The Chen family's parents were also worried about their two sons. The eldest son was ignorant and acted like a monster outside every day, while the younger son was too sensible, and they worried that they would be bullied when they went abroad to study in the future.
So they planned to make their youngest son live a more comfortable life while studying abroad. It would be best not to have to work like other international students, and just concentrate on his studies.So they saved Chen Yunian's living expenses and tuition fees for seven years.
In fact, Chen Yunian really wanted to tell his parents at that time that his brother was actually a very kind and nice person. Although he liked to play around, he was a person with a clear mind and a person with ideals in life. He was not useless, or It is a complete waste of life.
Chen Yunian has seen the airplane models made by his brother in the room, almost all of them are made by hand, not the kind of semi-finished products bought in the store, all the parts and screws are made by himself, and the cost of materials is almost spent With the pocket money given by my parents, my elder brother went to work in a fast-food restaurant outside.
Every day, he skipped evening self-study and went to the restaurant to wash dishes and dishes, and then started his model construction with the salary he got.
"Brother, are you going to be a pilot in the future?"
"No, I will be an aircraft designer in the future. What our country needs most now is our own aircraft. Haha. Brother, do I have great ambitions?"
Chen Yuli always has some unexpected ideas. He likes to specialize in one thing until he grows old. This thing may not be what his parents and teachers like, but he can persevere in it.
Although those things are hot in the eyes of parents and teachers, they are not doing their jobs properly, or are time-wasting things.But at that time, Chen Yunian felt that his brother's achievements in the future might be higher than him, or even much better than him.
In short, growing up in such a family atmosphere, Chen Yunian's character became more and more quiet, not to mention falling in love, even making few friends.
In the past, some girls liked him and even handed him love letters. At that time, he simply refused in person. He was not interested in these things at all.
His indifferent style is also known in the school as a ruthless genius boy.Most of them can only be seen from a distance but not played with.When girls are in adolescence, they are all in love and youthful.Naturally, he was curious about the standard configuration of male pig feet like Chen Yunian.
In fact, for him, these youthful rebellions may have come a bit late. He only began to understand the feeling of wanting to run away when he was in college.
Even if the schoolwork is not busy, he seldom goes home. On the surface, he does not want to spend more money to go home, but only he knows the real reason, that is, the expectations from his parents have brought him a lot of pressure.
The parents didn't feel such a psychological change, but they just thought that the youngest son must be too busy with schoolwork and have no time to go home.
"Brother, are you going to spend Christmas at school this year? I know you don't want to go home, don't worry, I will go back to be with my parents. You can do whatever you want. Drink, fall in love, fight. As long as you are yourself Just be happy."
His older brother Chen Yuli called him on Christmas Eve to comfort his younger brother.
In this family, maybe only Chen Yuli can truly understand his heart.
Everyone has too high expectations for him. When I was young, I didn't think so, but as I grew up, my mental capacity became smaller and smaller, and my mentality often completely collapsed because of a little thing.
Sometimes, Chen Yunian even wondered if he was suffering from depression. He also went to see a psychiatrist. It was a bit funny to say that he himself was a medical student, but there was nothing he could do about it psychologically.
In fact, he really wanted to go back and tell his grandfather that the most lacking thing in Chinese medicine is probably mental illness. Although Chinese medicine pays attention to seeing, hearing and asking, no one really cares about the patient's psychology. The most is to find a way to make him take medicine well. .
"You have a bit of obsessive-compulsive disorder, mild depression. Chen, you may need to get a girlfriend."
The one who showed him the psychology was his senior from the same school. The two of them had met in a certain college activity before. Danny was a very gentle person. Although he was already a registered physician, he didn't put on airs.He is very easy-going and patient with juniors.
Danny's father is a professor at the school, so he often comes to the school's infirmary to help.
Chen Yunian originally didn't want to study psychology in school, but the medical expenses in hospitals outside were too expensive, and it was free for them in school.
So Chen Yunian chose the school's outpatient clinic on a whim.It just so happened that Danny was on duty here.
The relationship between the two is relatively harmonious. The European students are very cheerful, most of them are very outgoing. Chen Yunian's personality can only be appreciated by Asian students, and most of them secretly guess whether he is frigid.
"Do I need to take medicine?"
"You don't need to take medicine, but you need to relax. Chen, do you know what relaxation means? That is to indulge yourself wholeheartedly, and don't stick to your current rules of conduct."
Danny has a pair of blue eyes, and is looking at this boy from Asia tenderly at the moment.
He has also come into contact with quite a few Asians, as well as children of the same nationality as Chen Yunian. As long as they think of going to see a doctor, they are basically already seriously ill.
He knows that Asians don't seem to care much about psychological treatment. Danny's tenderness is to take care of the patient's various emotions, and the necessary condition is to conceal and coax.
In fact, Chen Yunian's mental state is already quite serious. If he needs to be treated, it may bring more pressure to him who already has a lot of schoolwork.This will only make the condition worse.